Truth: They don't. They are too busy with work and taking care of the children. They might be more interested in how they perform in school, so most probably as teachers, you have to initiate to update the parents about their children's progress through text or email. Don't wait for them to ask for updates, when they do, it is when they feel that the child is not making any progress. Communication is very important.
2. You assume that students will remember to tell their parents about class schedule.
Truth: Students and parents will turn up even during holidays, as they do not keep track of the school calendar. So always remind the parents personally. Communication is the key.
3. You assume that students know how to achieve the goals you have set for them.
Truth: Students do not know how to go about solving problems on their own. For example, if they have a problem with fast passages, they might just repeat the same passage with mistakes at a fast speed without knowing how to tackle the problems. Always show them step-by-step on how to practise, how long to practise, how much to practise.
4. You assume that parents know when and how much to pay you.
Truth: Parents might forget the amount to pay you (yes, even if they pay you every month); before you start teaching the student, make sure you set your rules, for example, payment on first week of the month. Some parents might pay at the end of the month, whatever works for you and them. Write down on somewhere regarding payment, money is a sensitive issue.
5. You assume that your effort and time are well appreciated.
Truth: Well, some people might appreciate you for your patience and time for teaching, but not all the time. You might feel emotionally attached to certain student because of various reasons, the reality is they might not feel attached to you at all! So be professional, always have boundaries. Boundaries keep relationships healthy.
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